Fuck You! Sex, Body, Feminism

Performative reading

March 5 2026
NRW-Forum

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With ‘Fuck You!’, Missy Magazine, in cooperation with the publisher Edition Nautilus, has published a collection of sex columns in which 34 authors address topics that are otherwise preferred to be kept quiet in a lustful, political and brutally honest manner. 

The Missy Magazine team invites you to a series of live events, performative readings and talks related to the book. This time, moderated by Ulla Heinrich, they will celebrate queer desire, feminist discourse and solidarity-based audacity with guests Mithu Sanyal and Laura Merrit.

‘Fuck You!’ aims not only to entertain, but also to shed light on marginalised issues surrounding sex, impart knowledge and break down taboos: queer, lustful, provocative and unashamed. As a lesbian, is it okay if unimaginative straight porn turns me on? How impossible is anal sex with haemorrhoids? How do bondage and disability go together? How hot is sex for conception? And: How do you sext well? 

Come along when Missy transforms the stage into a walk-in safe space for desire, bodies and political passion.

Laura Méritt C Polly Fannlaf

Dr Laura Méritt is a sexologist, feminist activist, author and editor. She has been running Europe's oldest feminist sex shop, Sexclusivitäten, for over 30 years and carries out sexual politics campaigns with the Freudenfluss network. These include the PorYes Feminist Porn Award, MöMo – MösenMonat März (Pussy Month March), Frauenkörper neu gesehen (A New Look at Women's Bodies), Die klitorale Wahrheit (The Clitoral Truth), Wir spritzen zurück – vulvarische Ejakulation (We Squirt Back – Vulvar Ejaculation) and many more.

Mithu Sanyal C Caroline Windel

Dr Mithu M. Sanyal is an author, cultural scientist and journalist. She has received the Dietrich Oppenberg Media Prize three times for her radio plays and features. She works for WDR, SWR, Deutschlandfunk, The Guardian, BpB, Spiegel online, MISSY Magazine, SPEX, Konkret, Vice, etc. Until 2019, she had a regular column in the taz newspaper. She wrote a cultural history of the female genitals, Vulva (Wagenbach), and a history of the debate on rape, Vergewaltigung. Aspekte eines Verbrechens (Nautilus), for which she was awarded the Geisteswissenschaften international prize. Her novels Identitti and Antichristi are award-winning.

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Ulla Heinrich works as a curator and presenter, among other things. For over 15 years, Ulla has been involved in various cultural projects and collectives in Saxony, North Rhine-Westphalia and Berlin. With the collective dgtl fmnsm, dey has been creating digital art at the intersection of technology and feminism since 2015. In 2015, they founded the queer-feminist event and booking collective ‘böse und gemein’ (evil and mean) in Dresden and, as part of the Balance Club / Culture Festival collective, organises emancipatory and feminist bookings and club events in Leipzig. In 2019, Ulla took over the management of Missy Magazine.

The SEX NOW exhibition is open to visitors aged 18 and over only. It displays artistic works with explicit sexual content.

Duration: 2 hours

Price: 12 € 

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Stadtsparkasse Düsseldorf Otto Beisheim Stiftung Hoffmann Liebs